Coming In From The Cold

26 New Zealand male survivors share their personal stories of sexual abuse

In a new publication that records the last 10 years in the development of Tautoko Tāne Aotearoa, you will read the stories of 26 Tautoko Tāne staff and clients who have generously shared their survivor experiences to raise awareness of the impacts of sexual violence and to support the important work of the only national network in New Zealand that is dedicated to enabling the wellbeing of male survivors.

News & Events

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Henri Nouwen

Sexual abuse survivors at risk as funding cuts loom – support group

A sexual abuse support foundation says survivors are at risk as it braces for funding cuts in the new year. HELP Auckland will have $380,000 less to work with in 2026, after the government announced it would redirect $1.7 million from the sector. Sylvia Yandall, HELP’s Pasifika Services Manager, told RNZ the funding cut would…

Intersections of Child Sexual Abuse, Suicidality and Violence

The Roundtable on the Intersections of Child Sexual Abuse, Suicidality, and Violence was held in September 2025 as part of a joint project between Survivors & Mates Support Network (SAMSN), Griffith University’s Disrupting Violence Beacon (DVB), and the ARC Centre of Excellence for the Elimination of Violence Against Women (CEVAW). The event aimed to address…

When, Why and How Male Victim- Survivors of Sexual Violence Seek Help: Sexual Violence Practitioner Experiences of Support Provision

Recent research recording Australian service providers observations on male survivors help seeking behaviours revealed that readiness, willingness and commitment are key factors in the help seeking decision. Prior research has indicated significant delays in the help-seeking of male victim-survivors who have experienced sexual violence. Understanding the help-seeking behaviours among this cohort is crucial for empowering…

Govt to make it harder for some abuse survivors to get redress

The Government plans to pass a law making it harder for state abuse survivors with a history of violent or serious offending to access redress – something a lawyer and survivor advocate describes as “unjust, discriminatory, and contrary to the principles of trauma-informed, survivor-focused redress”. This is despite overwhelming evidence, including in the reports from…

Tāne Chat room

A Male Survivor’s Feedback on a Safe Space to Kōrero and Share His Struggles The Tāne Chat Room Caravan stands as a beacon of hope and support, offering a sanctuary where individuals like myself can korero speak openly and authentically about my struggles. This unique initiative is more than just a meeting place; it is…

Lake Alice redress ‘rotten to the core’, court told

A Lake Alice survivor has asked the High Court to review Cabinet’s decision on redress and formally find it breaches his international and domestic human rights. Flaxmere man Malcolm Richards was drugged, raped, beaten and shocked at the Manawatū psychiatric facility in the 1970s. He declined a $150,000 redress payment last year, opting instead to…

The Ministry of Impunity

The government faces legal action over compensation for torturing children at Lake Alice. But Crown Law, running legal interference for decades, is again pulling strings. Part 1 of a special 3-part series for Newsroom. Overview: The state has admitted torture and abuse of children in state care. It apologised in 2024. But it is legally…

How ACC plans to manage the estimated $3.6b cost of compensation for abuse survivors

A significant number of abuse victims could be eligible for ACC compensation following a landmark court ruling that could cost it billions of dollars. But ACC will not immediately be contacting everyone it believes might be eligible, due to fears of retraumatising them and its case managers being overwhelmed. Advocates and a survivor fear the…

Aaron Smale: An apology both sincere and hollow

For me the most powerful words were virtually unintelligible. Gary Williams is severely disabled and in a wheelchair, but that did not limit the power of his words, which were flashed up on a screen behind him. He was the first survivor to speak at the event. He spoke directly to the Government and you…

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