Coming In From The Cold

26 New Zealand male survivors share their personal stories of sexual abuse

In a new publication that records the last 10 years in the development of Tautoko Tāne Aotearoa, you will read the stories of 26 Tautoko Tāne staff and clients who have generously shared their survivor experiences to raise awareness of the impacts of sexual violence and to support the important work of the only national network in New Zealand that is dedicated to enabling the wellbeing of male survivors.

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Community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.

Henri Nouwen

Male sexual abuse survivors isolated in the darkness

Richard Old had been dead for about three weeks before anyone found him. And it wasn’t because he had no friends to check on him. He did. But Old was a survivor of sexual abuse and would isolate himself. He didn’t always want to interact with others. So the fact that he wasn’t answering his…

Erica Stanford: ‘Apologies can be hollow without actions’

On November 12, the Prime Minister, alongside his ministers and a selection of public service heads, will offer a national apology for the abuse and torture that tens of thousands of children suffered at the hands of the state But as so many survivors have said since the Government tabled the Royal Commission of Inquiry…

Attorney-General ignores survivors’ calls and backs Solicitor-General

Attorney-General Judith Collins says she continues to have confidence in Solicitor-General Una Jagose, despite calls for the head of Crown Law to step down for how she has handled the claims of state abuse survivors. Key survivor advocates have called for Jagose to be removed from her position as Solicitor-General. They say Jagose is conflicted by years…

New head of Crown abuse response put NZ’s false case to UN

The bureaucrat appointed to head the agency responding to victims of state abuse presented a report to the UN in 2015 that failed to acknowledge the torture that occurred at the adolescent unit at Lake Alice hospital. On Tuesday the Government announced the appointment of Rajesh Chhana as chief executive of the Crown Response Unit,…

Abuse and torture victims still waiting for government redress

A man who survived torture as a teenager at the notorious Lake Alice psychiatric facility in the 1970s and had to go to the UN in his efforts to gain justice fears he will die before he sees appropriate financial compensation. Malcolm Richards has cancer and is waiting for hospital treatment after suffering a heart attack. But…

Consequences of violent assaults for young victims and their parents

Falling victim to crime is a frightening event, with serious negative consequences for victims’ health, labour market participation, and human capital accumulation. Most existing studies on the impacts of victimisation focus on adult victims, but the group most likely to experience victimisation is youth. Who falls victim to crime? Aotearoa has some of the highest rates…

Te Ao Marama – Best Practice Framework

Te Ao Marama – developed over several years, these new best practice guidelines are judicial-led District Court initiative (applies to Family Court and Youth Justice, not High Court). It wants courts to be adopting solution-focused, therapeutic approaches through which participants feel understood in a fair hearing and supported with wrap-around services. The guidelines are currently heavily…

Male Survivors of Institutional Child Sexual Abuse: A Review

Male child sexual abuse is over-represented in institutional settings. This realization has increasingly come into public focus in recent decades initially through lived experience, often with male survivors’ stories told in the media and subsequently through court cases and government inquiries. Download PDF

Marist ‘monster’ jailed – at 82 years old

Almost 50 years after the horrific offending which ruined the lives of two of his former pupils, ex-teacher and former Marist religious brother Charles Afeaki on Wednesday night began a jail term for those crimes. Afeaki, now 82 years old, began a 25-month sentence for the sexual abuse he committed against two boys, then aged…

Waiting too long: Abuse in care survivor dies waiting for change

After decades hoping for change, one of the first abuse in care survivors to speak out has died before he could see it happen. His family and friends say survivors have had to wait too long. MADDY CROAD reports. Christina flicks through her folder of newspaper clippings until she stops at story from June 2002.…

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